Proving to Presence
A WanderWomen Retreat
3-days to recognise the season you’re in, reconnect with yourself, and return home with clarity for what comes next.
Can Buch, Catalonia | 13–15 November 2026
By the Author of WanderWomen
Founder of Thrive with Mentoring
Coachees in 40+ countries
Trusted by global organisations
Everything held, so you can arrive fully.
Your retreat place includes the core experience, accommodation, meals, materials, and a planned group shuttle from Barcelona-El Prat Airport at set times. Full details on room options, payment schedule, travel timing, and next steps are shared after your fit call.
Who is it for
High-achieving immigrant women who have led, adapted, carried, and succeeded, and are ready for success that feels true.
What you experience
Circle, story, nature, voice work, gentle movement, breathwork, shared meals, and spacious conversation.
What shifts
You begin to name what you have been carrying, what you are ready to stop proving, and what wants to lead the next chapter.
What you leave with
Boundaries you can feel in your body, Language for your next chapter, Your Leadership Manifesto, A version of success your body can sustain
Included
Everything essential is held so you can arrive fully, without having to manage the weekend yourself.
Stay, Meals & Travel
✓ Two nights at Can Buch, Catalonia
✓ Full-board meals from Friday to Sunday
✓ Planned group shuttle from Barcelona-El Prat Airport at set times
✓ Retreat materials and arrival information
Retreat Sessions & Integration
✓ Facilitated retreat sessions with Shivangi
✓ Guided reflection, story, and circle conversations
✓ Voice, boundaries, and leadership integration work
✓ Gentle movement and breathwork led by professionals
✓ WanderWomen book-based prompts
✓ Your New Success Script and Personal Leadership Manifesto
What you need to manage
You’ll need to arrange your own flights, travel insurance, and personal expenses. If you choose to arrive earlier, stay longer, or travel outside the arranged group shuttle, those costs will be separate.
Recommended airport: Barcelona-El Prat Airport. Final shuttle timing and travel guidance are shared after your place is confirmed.
The embodied practices are gentle and optional. Through breath, grounding, movement, voice, and stillness, you will begin to notice what your body has been carrying, where proving has lived, and what a more sustainable version of success might feel like.
Investment
Founding Member Price starts from
CHF 1149
Full details on room options, deposit, payment schedule, cancellation terms, and travel timing are shared in the private retreat PDF after your interest call.
A short, no-pressure conversation to explore whether this is the right room for you.
1. Book a fit call: We begin with a short conversation to understand fit and answer your first questions.
2. Receive the private PDF: You receive full details on pricing, room options, deposit, payment schedule, and travel.
3. Confirm your place: Your place is held once your deposit is received.
4. Share your details: You complete a participant form with dietary needs, room preferences, and travel information.
5. Prepare to arrive: You receive final Barcelona-El Prat shuttle timing, packing suggestions, and arrival details.
A sacred pause for the woman
who has outgrown proving.
You may recognise yourself here if...
You are used to being the capable one.
You have built a life across cultures.
Your work looks successful, but something in you wants more truth.
You want to be an inspiring leader in your own life and for others.
After The Weekend
Boundaries you can feel in your body
Language for your next chapter
Your Leadership Manifesto
A version of success your body can sustain
The book inside the retreat
WanderWomen: How High-Skilled Immigrant Women Thrive is the narrative backbone of the weekend. Before you arrive, you’ll receive selected prompts from the book to help you begin reflecting on your own story. During the retreat, we work with the Braving, Building, and Becoming framework through circle, voice, reflection, and integration.
You do not need to have finished the book before you come. It becomes a companion for the questions we explore together.
Three days. One return.
The Weekend Flow
The retreat is shaped by the three movements of WanderWomen: Braving, Building, Becoming. Each day gives you a different way to look at your next chapter: what is calling you, what you have carried, what you are ready to say, and what you now know.
Friday
Arrive. Slow down. Begin.
Not every transition begins with a dramatic decision. Often it starts with a quiet question you’ve been carrying for months.
Friday is about leaving behind the pace of everyday life and arriving fully. Through reflection, conversation and your first WanderWomen Circle, you’ll begin to notice what has been asking for your attention beneath the surface.
You leave the evening with one question:
What season of life am I truly in?
Saturday morning
See your story differently.
Many accomplished women assume that restlessness means something is wrong. More often, it signals that you’ve outgrown an old definition of success.
Drawing on the WanderWomen book, guided coaching and group reflection, you’ll explore the identities you’ve built, the expectations you’ve carried, and the subtle ways you’ve adapted to belong.
Rather than rushing to the next answer, you’ll learn to recognise the season you’re actually living.
Saturday afternoon and evening
Release what no longer belongs to you.
Nature doesn’t bloom all year. It also sheds. This is where the deeper work begins.
Through guided coaching, breathwork, reflection and honest conversation, you’ll begin letting go of the expectations, invisible labour and old stories that have quietly shaped your leadership and your life. The evening closes around the fire, where stories are shared without performance, advice or fixing. Just women witnessing one another with honesty and care.
One question guides the evening:
What am I ready to stop carrying?
Sunday
Return with clarity.
When we stop trying to force the next chapter, clarity arrives more naturally.
Sunday is about integration.
You’ll create your personal New Success Script and your Leadership Manifesto, turning the insights of the weekend into practical decisions you can carry home.
You leave with more than inspiration.
You leave knowing what matters now, what boundaries will protect it, and what your next season is asking of you.
Life doesn’t move in a straight line. Neither does leadership. This weekend is designed to help you recognise the season you’re in, honour it, and return home with greater clarity about what comes next. Every day includes guided journaling, shared meals, unhurried conversation, and space to rest: nature, stillness, circle work, story, and reflection. No networking. No performance.
What You'll Leave With
More than memories.
You leave with language.
Clarity on the beginning that is calling you now.
A stronger, truer voice for what you want next.
Boundaries that can hold under pressure.
A Personal Leadership Manifesto
"I did not need more advice. I needed a room where I could hear myself again."
What women often say after this work
Why Shivangi
A lived, shared, human experience.
Shivangi Walke is the founder of WanderWomen and Thrive with Mentoring (Switzerland). She has coached and trained leaders across 40+ countries, worked with global organisations, and brings 25 years of leadership work alongside lived experience of reinvention, belonging, and visibility across cultures.
I created WanderWomen because I kept meeting extraordinary women who had done everything right and still felt strangely far from themselves.
— Shivangi Walke, Founder
A sacred pause
You don’t need another room where you have to be impressive.
You don’t need another version of success that costs you your body, joy, or truth.
You may simply need a pause.
A circle. A weekend where you can stop proving and start listening again.
Come as you are. Leave with a clearer voice, a softer body, and a braver relationship to the woman you are becoming.
Frequently Asked Questions
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This retreat is for accomplished women who have led, adapted, carried, built, achieved, and may now be asking a more honest question: what does success need to look like now? It is designed especially for high-achieving immigrant women and women who have built lives across cultures, but if the themes of reinvention, voice, visibility, belonging, and self-trust speak to you, you are welcome to book a call and explore fit.
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It is the shift from performing strength to inhabiting your own truth more fully. Many women do not have a capability problem; they have learned to make themselves smaller in certain rooms. This retreat creates space to notice where you over-carry, soften your voice, negotiate your needs, or retreat from your own knowing, and to practice returning to yourself with more presence.
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No. This is not a conference, seminar, or networking weekend. It is a carefully held retreat for real conversation, reflection, embodiment, story, rest, shared meals, and being witnessed without needing to perform, impress, or arrive polished.
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Being witnessed means being met beyond what you achieve or hold together. It means having space to speak honestly, listen inwardly, and be received without needing to translate, justify, or make your story more acceptable. Sharing is always invitational; silence is respected as participation.
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The retreat will be held in English.
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No. This is a reflective reinvention retreat. It includes facilitated conversations, coaching-led reflection, story, embodiment, voice work, and integration practices, but it is not therapy and does not replace therapeutic or medical support.
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The retreat includes gentle, optional embodiment practices such as grounding, breath, movement, voice, stillness, body awareness, and reflection. These practices are not about performance, intensity, or forcing release. They are designed to help you notice what your body has been carrying, where proving has lived, and what a more sustainable version of success might feel like.
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There will be a mix of private and shared room options. Private rooms are limited. Room availability and pricing will be clarified on the call before you confirm your place.
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Yes. We will collect dietary needs in the participant form and coordinate with the venue. We will do our best to accommodate common dietary requirements, including vegetarian, vegan, gluten-free, and allergies where possible.
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Your place is confirmed with a deposit. Because this is a small retreat with accommodation commitments, deposits are non-refundable once your place is confirmed. If you need to cancel, we will do our best to offer your place to someone on the waitlist. If your place can be filled, we may be able to refund part of your payment.
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No. Any movement, yoga, breathwork, or embodiment work will be gentle and optional. You are invited to participate in a way that feels right for your body.
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No. You do not need prior experience. Everything will be guided, accessible, and choice-led.
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No. Sharing is invitational. You will never be forced to speak, disclose, or process anything publicly. Quiet participation is respected.
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Yes. Many women will. The retreat is designed to create connection gently, without forced intimacy or performance.
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The retreat takes place at Can Buch, a restored Catalan farmhouse in Girona. It offers nature, shared meals, quiet spaces, and a private setting that supports the pause and depth of the weekend.
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Can Buch is around 75 minutes from Barcelona. Group transfer arrangements will be organised, and final shuttle details and recommended arrival windows will be shared with registered participants closer to the retreat date.
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Included: two nights’ accommodation at Can Buch, full-board meals for the entire stay, facilitated retreat sessions, guided reflection, circle conversations, story work, voice and embodiment work, yoga or breathwork, and all retreat materials. It also includes transfers from Barcelona airport and city to Can Buch and back.
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Not included: flights, travel insurance, extra nights in Barcelona, personal expenses, and any transfers outside the arranged group shuttle.
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We will have a conversation to explore where you are in your life today, whether the retreat is the right fit for you, answer practical questions, and talk through room options, pricing, and next steps. The call is informational; there is no pressure to decide on the spot.